I hope I am just being overly sensitive.  Yesterday at an organization meeting I got the impression that
since my husband has been deceased now for almost four months, that I should be doing some kind of
tap dance!!  I was asked several times just how well am I doing....hello....how do they think I am doing?
I am doing much better now than I did four months ago, and much better than I did four weeks ago...but
I lost half my heart when my Lord called Michael home....doesn't anyone realize that....I know that it will
take time for the overwhelming sadness to completely leave....but after only four months...I still have
those moments triggered by the simplest of things that seem to crush the breath out of me.  I pray that
all who may read this will when encountering a surviving spouse will consider and examine their words
before they speak.